When my husband went to the ER last year, he rode in the ambulance alone and I drove myself to the ER and met them there. The police officer asked me if I needed a ride to the hospital, but I said no, I could drive. Of course we didn't think he was dying either.
That is the thing with Bacterial meningitis most people think they just have a really bad flu and then it gets super worse really fast. I remember back in college, we all had to watch a safety/health film about bacterial meningitis. The college wanted all students living in the dorms to be aware of it.