You don't think children should be taught to respect the country and the people who died for it by standing for the pledge or the anthem? I find that disheartening. Children should be taught that freedom is much more than just doing what you want to do.
@cjsummers :
Can I not respect the country and the people who died for it by sitting quietly? Would you not agree that having the choice to sit or stand is part of what those people died for? If you can agree, then why is it so upsetting?
I guess you could claim that by not standing I am disrupting the class, or that by refusing to stand I am being disrespectful and should feel guilty about it. But that sounds an awful lot like a dictatorship to me.