does your parents have a big backyard? maybe get married there? rents tables, rent chairs light candles, put up streamers, build a trellis to get married under (then use it in you first family planting of a rose bush) prepare food. just a few ideas I got married in my backyard and it as one of the best nights of my life. it was perfect.

Some of the bigger churches have smaller chapels....

@themrs916: My parents have a small backyard and live on a small street. It just wouldn't work.