Von - please get yourself into Al-Anon. Realize that she can only help herself. And she must want to be helped. I have some very sad experience in this matter so trust me on this. Best thing you can do is take care of yourself and keep the rest of the family together as addiction is often a wedge that can tear a family apart.
@VonsterPeo In case you weren't just being humorous in that last post, Al-Anon is support for family members. There is a lot to learn about how to go about helping someone in recovery. al-anon.org/?gclid=C KyD-_W_1tACFZCMaQode bgO8A
@VonsterPeo Von - AlAnon is support for the family of an addict. It teaches you how to help the addict (by not helping basically) and how to save yourself and your family from the damage an addicts behavior inflicts on the rest of the family.