It's easy for people who've never worn the badge to criticize. If skin color by itself is a perceived threat, you need a new job. In the context of this thread though, that suggestion was ludicrous and an obvious red herring that was tossed out in the absence of an intelligent response to an uncomfortable conversation.
How about a BB gun at night? An unloaded semi-automatic pistol? Both are perceived threats, both would justify the use of a lethal force response. Both would probably be met by some people on this board as "racist" if the victim was black.
How would you feel if the gun in question was pointed at your child, and the cop chose to "wait and see?" Would you be okay with that? Hell no you wouldn't. You'd be screaming "shoot him, shoot him" and God forbid the cop doesn't and your child is injured or killed, you'd be suing the cop, the department and the government that employed him.
But you expect him to stand there when it's HIS life on the line and "wait and see."
Hypocritical and ignorant.