my father in law is driving me bat sh7t crazy. (my husband is not his son)
I get that he is not well. his chemo dr. discharged him. my fil is done with that. on the road to recovery.
what is bothering me it that when you have to deal with him when you are done you feel like you put in a 12 hour shift.
he has to go to the dr's today and he needs a ride. fine. he is on oxygen and uses a walker and weighs 400 pounds
what really really really bothers me is he will get his oxygen, walker put it in his car and drive to get food from a restaurant.
but when he has to go to the dr's then of course his legs are killing him he will need to be pushed in a wheel chair. my patience with him is really really really getting thin.
and my fil's own son. just as lazy as his father.
I have been in situations with my fil that have turned my stomach. (I will leave it at that)
my poor husband gets to hear all about it and that is not fair to him. and my anxiety is through the roof. I know my fil is using and manipulating me.
i can't live in or with his denial anymore
thanks for letting me vent