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Come 'on Hip, pull your weight around the house...take out the trash, dust, vaccuum, scrub a few toliets and clean out the 'fridge!! What the hell are you doing all day, f*ckin' slacker!?!









ok, you know I'm kidding.....

I agree with take out the trash...care to guess where I'd start? It's probably on the couch in front of the TV right now.

When I come home, baby,
my house is dark and my pots are cold.
You're hangin' round, baby,
with Jean and Joan and-a who knows who.
I'm gettin' tried of waitin' and foolin' around,
I'll find somebody who won't make me feel like a clown.
This can't go on, Lord knows you got to change, baby.

Document, document, document

SAHM is right...the primary caregiver is the preferred parent in custody cases.

Doesn't have to be the primary in IL, women are given preference. Any doubts do some research, its a proven fact and any family court judge will tell you the same thing.

Unless she can be proven unfit, she will get the kids.

Keep in mind too, that just about anything can be brought up in that custody mess. Like for instance the many references to legalizing pot or whatever on a facebook page. ALL that stuff can pop up when it's better for it NOT to. My EX put me through HOLY HELL with custody issues.
Not criticizing, just mentioning.

Kids too young, she stays home full time as primary care giver if she wants to, on welfare, hip pays 25% of his net pay as child support, we pay the rest if she can't live on that 25%, that's the system.....

Unless she gets a drug charge or child abuse charge followed with a order of protection on her from Hip & the kids.


But I bet they'll die a happy old couple with lots of grand kids in that little dream house by the crick.

Good luck guys.....

Wait...are you telling me [name deleted] doesn't have money? I thought she was a rock star and actress...maybe she should sell her tour bus that she talks about. I can't believe that those videos she posts on youtube can't pay the bills...

have your oldest help you with the dishes. she can dry the plastic and spoons(things like that). will be memories for all of you. if ( i don't know how old the youngest is) , maybe she can put the plastic and spoons away. if you have to do laundry they can help fold. kids love to help

I do, everything....

All that stuff was on my MySpace page and I took it all down a long time ago, but anyone want to compare my MySpace to her MUTLITPLE MySpace pages??? lol

She is primary because she is home with them through the most hours with them when they are awake.

Its not my opinion but it is how the law works.

My sister is going through some parental issues herself. I asked if her boys help out around the house- dishes, laundry, picking up rooms and toys, taking out trash, etc (because their father does nothing). She said, 'we didn't have kids to put them to work.' But, I said, they learn from you. They start learning from the minute they come home from the hospital. They can help and feel important and needed even as a toddler. Getting them to help would be a positive all around. They'd get to spend time with you, learning and they'd grow up realizing how much you contributed around the house. Hip, it does not go unnoticed. Your girls are watching your every move and will remember that when moving out on their own, dating and realizing how a partner and parent should contribute whether they want to or not.

I agree with this 100%. Abby just turned 4 and she is expected to help around the house, little things of course, but she does help. She helps set the table, helps clear the table, helps put groceries away, puts the laundry down the laundry chute, and helps sort laundy to put in the washer. She loves it and does most of it without being asked.