Cheating. on the Peoria.com Forums - Page 7

Well, we agree to disagree Crodseth. I think people can be happy as a clam and still want their 'fancy tickled'.

I'm sure there are a few people like that...I'm just generalizing by saying that MOST people cheat because they're not happy.

I'll agree with you there Flip, but it's the exception, not the rule. Those men/women will never be happy regardless of the situation.

However, you'll start to see a pattern here if your paying attention. Anytime a marriage goes bad it's generally both parties at fault. Just to different degrees. Even if the divide is 99.99 percent his fault there's still that .01 percent where she could have done something to feed a remedial need he may have had. If the other spouse can never find her .01% she's doomed to repeat the behavior.

Raoul

So is the spouse that never cheats sexually but socially spends a great deal of time out with friends to dinners and all sorts of other events meeting and fulfilling all social needs cheating?

Raoul, you are describing 90% of the PDC membership

Yup, if they cheat once, don't get caught they will continue to do so, if they cheat and aren't kicked to the curb, they will continue to cheat, if they cheat, are caught and not kicked to the curb and don't want to get 'counseling' then they don't care and the relationship is DOOMED!! Anyone agree with THAT?

I think some people only get upset if there are genitals involved.

I had a friend that was a masseuse, he told me ( I always wondered about this ) that he was quite sure he had a couple of female clients that actually orgasmed while getting massaged and without him actually ever touching any genitalia, were they cheating??

No, they were lucky!

Raoul.. I've got a real bad cramp in my neck...

So who is the masseuse friend?

Far away and long ago....... I always thought he was just full of crap. He either went nether or they did not get off, I now think maybe he was not bullsh***ing. Hmmmmm
Christi don't you have a little battery operated massager for just that purpose?

Just researching options there Raoul! Did I ask for his number?

Thank you!!!!
And about the previous post, too!